Help Yourself – A Tale from Snow Black…

  I met a guy at a gig just before Christmas. Not really in the habit of meeting boys at gigs to be honest. Like I’ve mentioned in previous blogs, if you’re looking for a Christian guy, he’s not going to be chirpsing you out in public. The odds are just so against it. However,

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There Is Hope, Girls

Let’s get something smog free, before we all jump on the little bus to crazy town. The majority of the church of England do actually want women in leadership. The general synod is made up in 3 sections. The votes last Tuesday were as follows: The House of Bishops voted 44-03, the House of Clergy

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Unoffendable

“So here’s the things I want to work on this year” I hold onto to my new mentor’s shoulders (for me, this means business), “Perfectionism, fear of man and people-pleasing” She smiles and replies “Wouldn’t it be wonderful to be completely unoffendable?” Nail. Hit. On. Head. But be careful for what you pray for, over

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Laughing in The Face of Weird Things

‘Why did I come here?’ I ask Hosea as I lip wobble to him on skype, in a car park, outside Starbucks (I’ve got no wifi yet). I’m roaming from one place to another until my apartment is ready late Oct. It’s 2 weeks into my 9 months of California life. It’s been a tough

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‘Then Cinderella Jetted Off and Left Her Prince’

Like all good fairy tales go, you meet the man of your dreams and straight after, you are accepted to attend a school of ministry for 9 months, 6,000 miles away from where you have been living and loving. Textbook. It was slowly sinking in that I was leaving him. Every hour was becoming heavy.

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The Recipe

This isn’t just about a check list of wishes in your man. This is more than a check list. This is your saving grace from blubbing over men that weren’t right for you. Men who’s potential you fell for – but actually when you really looked at them, they’re weren’t for you. This is a

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5 Years Ago Today….

    ….I had my first date with the man I believed I’d marry. We dated for four and a half years and had some beautiful, fun loving times. We never fell apart because we didn’t love each other – but because we had different dreams for our marriage and our future children. I thank

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D. T. R

Define. The. Relationship   You know what we’re talking about here. The friendships you have with your male friends. The one you talk about all the time and love hanging out with. He seems to enjoy hanging with you too. You look into every text and wonder if he has increased his feelings for you

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